I am pleased to tell this

agedsandshark

Shared on Tue, 01/19/2010 - 06:01

If you have seen my last blog about my parents then you know what i have been doing and the things that i have working threw.

If you have not seen my other blog just thumb down to see it please i dont feel like recaping it all with that said i have good news and bad news.

First the bad news it has been over a year sence i have had any contact with my birth father and its just not going to happen so I have acpted that fact and i am moving on with him in my life

I am sad that it has to be this way but i have done all i could about it short of going to his home and smacking him in the mouth.

Now the good part my mom and myself have just spent about 4 days togther geting in some time and talking about some of the stuff that was haunting me and it was a great feeling to get it out and off my chest.

We still have a few things to work out but we have reconected and i am ready to try to have my mom back in my life again.

The crazy part is this all happend becouse i have got a bad infection in my left thumb and hand and I went to her becouse I needed some help and could not drive to get some stuff done and look what has happend.

The lord used something like this infection to put me and my mother back on the same path. 

Praise God glory to him in the highest.

 

Comments

ProvingUnique's picture
Submitted by ProvingUnique on Tue, 01/19/2010 - 06:33
Happy to hear about you and your mom getting along now. Sorry to hear about you and father. I really wouldnt know about father son relationships though, my father was never around. Im gonna quit Hijacking your blog now.
killingspree75's picture
Submitted by killingspree75 on Tue, 01/19/2010 - 07:16
Hey man it is awsome to know that you still keep your head high after all this. Its amazing that something like this has rekindled a relation ship w/ your MOM! And yes I agree God has a plan for everyone!
wamam87's picture
Submitted by wamam87 on Tue, 01/19/2010 - 07:57
funny how things work sometimes. i hope things continue to improve with your mom. no matter what, your the better person through all this. don't sweat the situation with your father(easier said than done) try to leave it behind you. you shouldn't try to forget about it though. your past makes you who you are today. i bet your son is a very lucky boy...he's got a great dad
endwon's picture
Submitted by endwon on Tue, 01/19/2010 - 10:25
love your son and wife,nothing is ever perfect but sometimes we get a chance to try to return balance to the world.seems like your getting yours!
Fish66's picture
Submitted by Fish66 on Tue, 01/19/2010 - 13:13
Remember that not all people that have kids are parents, it's sucks, but it's just how it is. Like endwon said, by breaking the cycle you have done the best you can and are the better person. I wish you well.
SPARHAWK25's picture
Submitted by SPARHAWK25 on Tue, 01/19/2010 - 13:29
If you get these kinda results from a thumb...just think of the goodness that could come from a sharp blow to the melon. I am working angles for you Shark. Best of luck with everything.
naveeda's picture
Submitted by naveeda on Tue, 01/19/2010 - 13:49
thats great news sandshark, btw i hope your thumb also recovers fast.

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