Child support - and other shit

Ok so...Mr. Punisher goes back to court with the ex-girlfriend/baby momma drama/pain in my ass tomorrow over her CS issues. The main issue = she doesn't feel like she should have to pay. HAHAHA, if the tables were turned we wouldn't have a fucking dime. On Sept 23 2003, after a long waiting we finally recieved physical custody (meaning they would live with us), but with joint custody with her. This just meant a lot of headaches because they had to make all important decisions together (i.e. school, religion, dr's etc). This was a pain in the ass because if they couldn't agree on shit when they were together who in their right mind thinks they could do it now. Long story short - didn't work, lots of BS and headaches. She was a walking time bomb of trouble and arguments. She started dating and we thought maybe it would get better because she would have someone else to focus on...then we started getting the stories from the kids that they were watching her have sex (5 and 6 yrs old). They would tell us what an erect penis looked like and how mommy moved and screamed etc. Of course this meant getting child services involved...they only told her that she needed to do her private business in the bedroom and not the front room where the boys watched cartoons. WHAT!?! Yes, it is true...they fucking dropped the ball. Then she started dating this dude seriously and we hoped shit would settle down. Well, it turns out they smoked crack together, beat eachother (in front of the boys 6 & 7), and eventually started committing crimes together. We finally decided in Jan. of 2004 that we needed some help financially from her. After several requests, she never helped not even with the medical bills that started coming in for counseling. We felt counseling was needed after all they had seen and dealt with...not to mention one of them was diagnosed with ADHD at the time. On Jan. 14th 2004, the judge allowed CS for $115 a week. She had a GREAT job working at a junior college - considering she only has a GED (nothing wrong with that...). In my area if all you have is a GED, it is damn near impossible to get a job doing anything that is close to a career. She was making GREAT money and instead of showing up with her stubs, she took a hit and let our attorney decide the amount based on speculation. I think it would have been less, but she didn't want to be there. 4 months after the CS was set and we rec'd about 4 checks - SHE WAS FIRED FOR THEFT. Now the most dissapointing part - with her working there...the boys could have rec'd 2 free yrs of college. If she could offer them anything later in life it could have been 2 free years of college and the bitch fucked it up. Apparently, she was stealing computer stuff for an alleged drug problem. I say alleged because most persons with severe drug issues don't weigh 250 lbs at 5'10". Her supposed issue was with crack and cocaine...people are usually skinny and don't hold professional jobs for 5 yrs while smoking crack. Then she left for 6 months - no contact, came back pregnant - with dudes baby, she turned him in for a plea bargain, she got 3 1/2 yrs probation for burglary (committed while gone), went into a program for abused women (even though she was also an abuser) and then moved in with her mom. He finally rec'd SOLE custody - it just took all this shit for it to happen. Basically, he said if you want to see the kids...sign here. She went into a beauty school for 7 months and then got a jobby job. SWEET...we found out from the kids and called our attorney. He filed the papers to have the money removed from her checks...she called our attorney and said, "I only make $6.50. Reduce it please." Ummm, we pay him to work for us not you...file it yourself. Her answer, she quits her job. Then she goes to Disney world with her mom and the boys. Comes back and gets a new job 3 weeks later - still doesn't tell us and we contacted our attorney. She is now $10,000 in the hole for CS and $1,400 for medical bills. Most likely we will never get a dime...but they have new laws in Illinois for dead beat parents. We can have her license revoked for work only or jail time for not paying. She is still on probation and if she gets arrested for anything it would mean prison. This is not our goal...we have never with held the kids from her...they need to know their mother. We just want her to be held responsible. If you made it this far...I'm sorry,but thanks.