RAWR!!!!!

SO, I am going through withdrawals. I cant seem to connect to anyone on live. I missed clan night last night  with the platoon.I know  I sound like a whiny Timmy, but I WANT MY MW2!!! okay now i feel somewhat better. Seriously  though I have no clue as to why I havent been able to join any rooms. My husband just sits back and laughs.  he tries to tell me i need to be more patient. He figures that live is just overloaded with everyone lookin at the new maps preview or something. If anyone has any clue or is having similar problems connecting to a room please let me know so i dont feel like such a  ree-ree.