elbe121
Shared on Thu, 11/01/2007 - 08:21The f*ckin ex had me sooo pissed off that I couldn't see straight. What the hell causes someone to make up totally ridiculous lies about someone to try to mess with them.
So this doesn't get too confusing i'll have to explain the "circle" of how we all know each other. Back in 97' I started working at KFC during high school. During this time is when I met my ex girlfriend, my current "friend" and her uncle worked their as well. Yeah I know its fucked up. I started dating my friend when we were in high school at this time, nothing too serious, just casual. After my friend left KFC we stayed in touch for a little while but have not spoken to each other in about 4 years. During that time I started falling for my ex and we ended up together for about 6 years.
Well this march I moved out of my ex's house so that maybe we could try and work things out. We started to get along a lot better but I hardly ever saw her, maybe once every 2 or 3 weeks and when I did see her it was usually no more than an hour and a half tops. She always had something else to do or said that she was just too tired to see me. I can understand that, but when she kept saying that she was going to see me and she would blow me off without even a phone call it kinda starts to hurt. I talked to my ex and expressed how much she was starting to hurt me again but nothing changed so I decided that I was tired of getting hurt or led on so it was emotionally better for me that instead of fooling ourselves that we just would be friends. She said that is not what she wanted to I decided to stick it out but in all reality we have been separated since about June, even though I still referred to her as my girlfriend. Just seemed easier that way. She was clear on the fact that we weren't together sometimes then other times she would call me her boyfriend. I was so confused (still am)
Fast forward to October. I went into Wal-Greens and I ran into my old friend from KFC again. We started talking and decided to go out a grab a bite to eat to catch up on old times. Well we actually hit it off and started to talk to each other for the past few weeks. More than casual but not that serious....yet. My friends uncle went up to where my ex works and was asking her for a job or whatever they were talking about (his niece and I were apparently one of the topics of their conversation). My ex shows up at my door late Monday night crying cause i've been talking to someone else. I asked her why she was so upset since we were just talking and that she hadnt talked to me in a while and obviously their was little to no chance of us getting back together. She didn't answer me just kept crying then left. Last night my friend stopped by to hang out, and she asked me some really weird questions. Apparently my ex had told her uncle that SHE kicked me out (lie #1), because we got into a fight and I kicked her and stabbed her in the back (lie #2,3). And no she didn't mean metaphorically either. My ex then proceeded to say that she took her key back from me and that I went and had a spare made and I walked in on her with someone (lie #4,5). Also I choked her so bad that I left bruises on her neck (lie #6) I was so livid that I literally could not see straight. I had always heard that saying but I did not think it was possible till last night.
Why the hell would she try to hurt me like that, I know that it shouldn't get to me but I have always had a problem with someone lieing about me. I am very honest, most of the time too honest. If I ever did something I always fess up to it, no use in trying to weasel your way out of it, cause your gonna get caught eventually and then matters are always worse. But that was just spiteful, cause deep down she and I both know that I treated her like my princess cause that's what she was to me.
Fuck it, I quit
So this doesn't get too confusing i'll have to explain the "circle" of how we all know each other. Back in 97' I started working at KFC during high school. During this time is when I met my ex girlfriend, my current "friend" and her uncle worked their as well. Yeah I know its fucked up. I started dating my friend when we were in high school at this time, nothing too serious, just casual. After my friend left KFC we stayed in touch for a little while but have not spoken to each other in about 4 years. During that time I started falling for my ex and we ended up together for about 6 years.
Well this march I moved out of my ex's house so that maybe we could try and work things out. We started to get along a lot better but I hardly ever saw her, maybe once every 2 or 3 weeks and when I did see her it was usually no more than an hour and a half tops. She always had something else to do or said that she was just too tired to see me. I can understand that, but when she kept saying that she was going to see me and she would blow me off without even a phone call it kinda starts to hurt. I talked to my ex and expressed how much she was starting to hurt me again but nothing changed so I decided that I was tired of getting hurt or led on so it was emotionally better for me that instead of fooling ourselves that we just would be friends. She said that is not what she wanted to I decided to stick it out but in all reality we have been separated since about June, even though I still referred to her as my girlfriend. Just seemed easier that way. She was clear on the fact that we weren't together sometimes then other times she would call me her boyfriend. I was so confused (still am)
Fast forward to October. I went into Wal-Greens and I ran into my old friend from KFC again. We started talking and decided to go out a grab a bite to eat to catch up on old times. Well we actually hit it off and started to talk to each other for the past few weeks. More than casual but not that serious....yet. My friends uncle went up to where my ex works and was asking her for a job or whatever they were talking about (his niece and I were apparently one of the topics of their conversation). My ex shows up at my door late Monday night crying cause i've been talking to someone else. I asked her why she was so upset since we were just talking and that she hadnt talked to me in a while and obviously their was little to no chance of us getting back together. She didn't answer me just kept crying then left. Last night my friend stopped by to hang out, and she asked me some really weird questions. Apparently my ex had told her uncle that SHE kicked me out (lie #1), because we got into a fight and I kicked her and stabbed her in the back (lie #2,3). And no she didn't mean metaphorically either. My ex then proceeded to say that she took her key back from me and that I went and had a spare made and I walked in on her with someone (lie #4,5). Also I choked her so bad that I left bruises on her neck (lie #6) I was so livid that I literally could not see straight. I had always heard that saying but I did not think it was possible till last night.
Why the hell would she try to hurt me like that, I know that it shouldn't get to me but I have always had a problem with someone lieing about me. I am very honest, most of the time too honest. If I ever did something I always fess up to it, no use in trying to weasel your way out of it, cause your gonna get caught eventually and then matters are always worse. But that was just spiteful, cause deep down she and I both know that I treated her like my princess cause that's what she was to me.
Fuck it, I quit
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