UPDATE...

my thoughts & prayers go out to you & your family.

my family will be sure to include you & your family in our thoughts and prayers.

Sending good vibes and thoughts of peace your way Durty.

My grandmother died two years ago a few weeks before Christmas of terminal cancer (blood cancer), she was diagnosed on Thanksgiving and made it roughly two weeks--enough for all the family to come by and visit, although near the end she wasn't responsive. It's sad, but in a way it's what many people want...a long and happy life. To see young kids die (my cousin died at 26 of brain cancer), to see people die in accidents and the such... you forget that some of these older folks dying of "natural causes" old age, or in the case of my grandmother, cancer at the age of 87, the pulled it off! Everyone's going to die, I just hope I, like my grandmother (and probably your grandfather), have a full circle of family and friends around me as I'm making my final stand. To have a predictable end, knowing it's going to happen, and being able to say your goodbyes can't really be any better in my opinion. A whole hell of a lot better than an abrupt ending before you should go with nobody there to send you off.

tell me...... how sexy is fuck?

My graddfather died a few years back from cancer in his throat. He went to the doctor just after Christmas and they found it. They put him in the hospital but decided it was inoperable and did a tracheotomy so he could breathe. After a few weeks of having family members care for him he hated it so much and finally pulled it out. He just wanted to be let go. After that he was put in a hospice where I would go to visit. One time he was making a paper chain and when I asked him about it he said he was going to use it to escape. We buried him on March 2nd of that year at the age of 93.

Get well soon!

get well kitten! And keep away from the smokes, you'll thank yourself in the long run!

Im having a good tuesday.... I have a magic show in my pants... wanna see?

YEM~ Fuck is very sexy...or haven't you seen it before? Fale~ ooohhh magic show in your pants...can I get tickets? LOL

Lol, Yem. Fuck is as sexy as it gets!! Glad you are on your way to recovery sweets :) Let's hope we all get better soon.

so on a scale of 1-11 1/2?

YEM~ if 1 is considered the sexiest and 11 not so much..yes I wouold say 1/2 would be a good description..

YEM~ if 1 is considered the sexiest and 11 not so much..yes I wouold say 1/2 would be a good description..

Sorry about your grandfather, Durty. Our thoughts go out to you and your family.

Congrats on the 19 hrs. Keep getting better.

I agree Durty, when sick/dying people want to go they need to have their wishes followed and stop having extraordinary means performed on them to keep them alive, which keeps them in pain and extends suffering. It is really just being selfish to keep people in that state.

My sincerest condolences, I can't imagine how difficult this must be. I imagine your grandfather did not have a Do Not Resuscitate (DNR) order in place.

Thank you. No he did not have a DNR or any living will of any sort...unfortunately. :( I hate to see him in pain when he doesn't need to be anymore.

I pray that your grandfather be freed from his suffering and find peace. May the Lord hold him in the palm of his hand and comfort him. My wish for you is that everytime you think of him you remember something funny about him and smile.

He looks great in the pictures, i would never have guessed he was terminal. You should encourage your grandma (or your grandpa if he's able) to sign a DNR so when he does go, they won't try and recover him, they'll just let him rest in peace.

sorry to hear that,My sincerest condolences

Good luck. I just go to Lowes, I couldn't take it anymore.

Tank: The first pic was taken about 5 years ago...the second pic was taken almost 20 years ago. He isn't 'terminal' as in, he isn't afflicted with anything other than extremely old age and his health is just failing. He has been lucky in life to have never had any serious illness, and at this point his body is just giving up on him.

our prayers are with you and your family. Im sure he will go with no complications.