What's bothering me

ImMrPete

Shared on Sat, 02/05/2011 - 20:21

 

We had met at a friends house about 2 years ago. She was married to one of my friends relatives. There was nothing remarkable, just one of those people you meet throughout your life. I remember having a conversation with her about adopting a child. She was watching a child for someone at her church and was interested in become his legal mother. I tried to help her considering my ex wife does adoptions for the County. Nothing really came of it and then I don't think I saw her again.
 


 

In December I was watching the news. There was a story about a serial killer who was picking up prostitutes on craigslist and dumping their body's on a long island beach. There was a picture of her, clear as day. I thought to myself, damn, that girl looks familiar. Then they showed her name. I'll be damned, the same girl that I talked to those couple days was brutally murdered.


 

For some reason this has been bothering me and I'm not really sure why. I've known plenty of people that have died before their time. I can't say that I was close with this girl or anything. Just one of those people who passes through your life. I think it's more of how this happened. How does life work? How do you go from being married and having aspirations of starting a family in St Petersburg to being a prostitute in New York within two years? No matter what her story was, nobody deserves to die like that.

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char's picture
Submitted by char on Tue, 02/08/2011 - 09:01
CypticCat is right on. Venom has a strong case. No matter what, very sad ending.
Biznass's picture
Submitted by Biznass on Sat, 02/05/2011 - 20:49
That's crazy.
SM05's picture
Submitted by SM05 on Sat, 02/05/2011 - 21:59
I think you being in your early 30s the sense of your own mortality hits you like a ton of bricks all of a sudden. Makes you think...
CrypticCat's picture
Submitted by CrypticCat on Sun, 02/06/2011 - 05:38
@Smos, I'm almost 50 and I still think I can't die. @Pete, you're bothered because you knew the woman. Even as a passing aquintance, people still give you the gift of memory. I can't explain why lives go south, as the scales tip differently for everybody. But I do believe that a lot is in the choices you're forced to make, as opposed to the decisions you make freely. Freely made choices, by my experience, have but minor impact on your life.
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Submitted by VenomRudman on Sun, 02/06/2011 - 19:19
Drugs are a bitch.

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