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Shared on Mon, 04/26/2010 - 23:56

Watched my 5 y/o son almost drown in the pool this evening (right before his swimming lesson). Both boys think they can swim...they can't. The love testing me---they don't believe me!!

I was a Lifeguard and WSI (Water Safety Instructor) in college. I know wtf I'm talking about kids ;-)

The panic in his eyes was awful! He was supposed to hang onto the edge of the pool but he doesn't listen---the second I took my eye off of him he pushed himself out---in the 3' -ish deep water. Kids/instructors are all around him, but they don't SEE him. He's bobbing up and down trying to get his head out enough to get breaths in--he did quite well but he was running out of energy. I almost had to jump into the pool (fully clothed), but a nice lady who I might have yelled at, grabbed him.

I can NEVER EVER forget that fear that I saw in his face!!!!!

He still wanted to take his lesson after the incident---and I'm sure if he hadn't been a bit shook up, he would have leveled up to level 3 (Swim America) with his brother.

--- I thought of my father, who at age 9 watched his younger brother drown in a river--he couldn't swim and neither could his brother---

***the NSFW is from a previous blog---it stays for few blogs so don't be mad at me for no boobs or "bad" words***

 

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ekattan's picture
Submitted by ekattan on Tue, 10/20/2009 - 16:36
So sorry. RIP Sunny.
H2Daddy's picture
Submitted by H2Daddy on Tue, 10/20/2009 - 16:48
Sorry to hear. It is always hard to lose a pet.
Caesar's picture
Submitted by Caesar on Tue, 10/20/2009 - 18:34
sorry to hear about your cat man
SGTDuff's picture
Submitted by SGTDuff on Sat, 04/05/2008 - 02:29
I'm sorry for your loss. we lost one of our basset hounds this year as well. i suggest you make a tribute video or something on youtube. it helps to remember the fun and good times you had with your bud. our daisy used to roo unless it was raining at 530 every day for a walk.
Lala Calamari's picture
Submitted by Lala Calamari on Tue, 10/20/2009 - 19:00
Dude that sucks, losing a pet is not easy. Sorry for your loss.
wamam87's picture
Submitted by wamam87 on Tue, 04/27/2010 - 00:03
totally insane...i'm so glad worse didn't come of it. try to let it go & hopefully he learned a valuable lesson.
LuxDevil67's picture
Submitted by LuxDevil67 on Tue, 04/27/2010 - 06:16
how old is he again? kids will scare the hell out of you in a million ways. i doubt this will be the last time. important thing is to not let it get the better of you. course your history with water may make it a little different... i remember how i learned to swim: lifeguard threw me into the 12' section of the pool. i learned real fast!
Lala Calamari's picture
Submitted by Lala Calamari on Tue, 04/27/2010 - 07:11
Wow, scary. I'm glad everything is ok.
Anonymous's picture
Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 04/27/2010 - 07:42
That's it. No swimming lessons for mine. Luckily our neighbors are firefighter/emts with a pool of their own and an open invite to our kids to swim with them!
J-Cat's picture
Submitted by J-Cat on Tue, 04/27/2010 - 07:53
OMG you okay? GEEZ scary, scary stuff
YEM's picture
Submitted by YEM on Tue, 04/27/2010 - 08:29
@ lux She did type "my 5 y/o son" :lol:
TKBosss's picture
Submitted by TKBosss on Tue, 04/27/2010 - 08:42
That would have freaked me out!!! Both of my kids are going to swim class this year as well. My daughter is 4, but my son is 9 and has refused to learn to swim. He FINALLY started working on it last year. He had a hard time coming to grips with going underwater. Hopefully he swimming by the end of the summer.
GIJoeBob's picture
Submitted by GIJoeBob on Tue, 04/27/2010 - 08:49
We've had our kids in the water since they are 1 or so getting used to the water, treading water, etc. I had to fish my 2 year old daughter out of my in-laws pool and give her a few rescue breaths to get her working again. Poppa decided to put up a safety fence after that. Now all of them swim like fishes and love the pool. I'm sure the experience was traumatic but don't worry too much about it, especially around the kids. They don't need to be afraid of the water.
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Submitted by P_Train_of_Love on Tue, 04/27/2010 - 09:52
I had to jump in at a water park because my 6 year old had the same attitude. Scary as all hell, especially since those places get so packed. I'm not sure that the lifeguard would have saw her in time either.
P_Train_of_Love's picture
Submitted by P_Train_of_Love on Tue, 04/27/2010 - 09:53
sorry, double post... that incident made her more respectful of the water though... glad it didn't totally freak her, like you mentioned.
IAmTheLiquor's picture
Submitted by IAmTheLiquor on Tue, 04/27/2010 - 10:30
Scary stuff. Thankfully I have yet to see "that look" in either of my kids eyes.
BasBleu's picture
Submitted by BasBleu on Tue, 09/15/2009 - 18:05
Reminds me of that Smiths' song "We hate it when our friends become successful" LOL
JeepChick's picture
Submitted by JeepChick on Thu, 11/01/2007 - 09:05
I've had that jaw lock before. Feels so tight and I was always afraid it would pop out if I forced it. Both times it was sleeping at an odd angle combined with an ear infection.....Hopefully you won't have to wait long once you get there!
KuruptU4Fun's picture
Submitted by KuruptU4Fun on Thu, 11/01/2007 - 09:06
I'm sorry that all this is happening to you Fairy, I hope your day gets better...
ATC_1982's picture
Submitted by ATC_1982 on Thu, 11/01/2007 - 09:10
good luck
HUNTERFU's picture
Submitted by HUNTERFU on Tue, 04/27/2010 - 11:15
Glad everything is ok. Teaching my 4 year old how to swim now. We have similar incidents all the time. They always think they can swim far better than they actually can. LOL Being a parent is a million times harder than I thought it would be beofre having kids
VenomRudman's picture
Submitted by VenomRudman on Tue, 04/27/2010 - 14:00
Wow, that's scary! Glad to see everything was all right!
rayrayfiftytwo's picture
Submitted by rayrayfiftytwo on Thu, 11/01/2007 - 09:20
Feel better. Nothing worse than Ninja withdrawl.
DragonsFairy83's picture
Submitted by DragonsFairy83 on Thu, 11/01/2007 - 09:27
Thanks to all of you.
kewljoe's picture
Submitted by kewljoe on Thu, 11/01/2007 - 09:28
ouchies hope you feel better soon!!
DaddyFatSack_25's picture
Submitted by DaddyFatSack_25 on Thu, 11/01/2007 - 09:31
You want me to come over and take my shirt off?
LuxDevil67's picture
Submitted by LuxDevil67 on Tue, 04/27/2010 - 19:12
@yem: alcohol makes me miss details. funnt because the devil is in the details! yes, i'm drunk. yay!
KuruptU4Fun's picture
Submitted by KuruptU4Fun on Thu, 11/01/2007 - 09:35
She wants to get better DFS not get thrown into a panic attack.....
J-Cat's picture
Submitted by J-Cat on Thu, 11/01/2007 - 10:02
big boo-urns! hopefully you can get in soon!
Inka Cola's picture
Submitted by Inka Cola on Wed, 01/21/2009 - 10:24
I cant believe they did that shit to you bro...
Fish66's picture
Submitted by Fish66 on Wed, 04/28/2010 - 09:23
I'm glad he didn't get hurt, on the bright side, I bet he wont do it gain.
RivalJJH's picture
Submitted by RivalJJH on Thu, 11/01/2007 - 10:31
I'm amazed Rabb and Jammer haven't made comments about this. lol
J-Cat's picture
Submitted by J-Cat on Fri, 04/04/2008 - 11:52
our pets are like family. The vets are usually really great and can help you through this...
Stone's picture
Submitted by Stone on Fri, 04/04/2008 - 11:57
I now how you feel. We had to put one of our cats down a couple of years ago that we had for 11 years.
ATC_1982's picture
Submitted by ATC_1982 on Wed, 04/28/2010 - 13:52
I am glad that he is safe ...
dreadKnights's picture
Submitted by dreadKnights on Fri, 04/04/2008 - 14:53
Sorry to hear. I have lost a pet as well and know how hard it can be. Its sounds like your doing the right thing for him. I hope you get to feeling better.

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