damn klingons!

ok ok. not the star trek kind. the kind that always call you, invite themselves to places with you. show up at your house unexpectedly. and even go so far as to ask if "you would like to go out drinking, they can sober cab you, they will stay sober." i dont know, its happened alot to me with some friends. good guys, but i just dont think they are used to having friends they dont have to constantly impress or suck up to in order to hang out with them. they seem so desperate for friends they will go to any length to get them. i feel bad for them.

i dont like to feel pressured into anything. im not one who deals with people pressuring me well. if i get pushed i push back. good sometimes, bad others. and when friends pressure me to hang out, i get kinda pissed. i dont get mad at them. i just kinda avoid them when i dont want to deal with them.

i think its because i can talk to anyone about anything. most the people who push themselves on other people are lacking in a way the other person excells. i dont know. i just wanted to rant a bit about it. no reason to make those people feel bad. they usually get the hint after awhile then everything gets better.