I'm so confused!

Yikes!  I am getting a fair share of hits on match.com, but none of them really seem to fit.  For one thing, they mostly seem to be looking for a "lasting relationship", their soul mate, etc.  I just want to send some emails and get to know some guys.  Do I want to marry any of them?  Oh my lord, NO!!!!  There's the young guy (kinda hunky...) that likes older women.  Nice.  There's another that plays WoW.  Nice, too.  Ahhhh, but the one that IM'd me and said "Hello pretty Lady", mmmmm.  He must have found out flattery will get you everywhere.  With me, anyways.

So, I am confused.  These guys are encouraged to sound flirty, exciting, and different so that they will catch someone's eye.  But, a lot of it just sounds dumb and over the top.  I really want to get to know a real person, or two, or more.  And, pics help a lot.  No, I don't require gorgeous creatures.  Not at all.  But sometimes there is something there.....

Well, confusion continues, but at least I have something to do in my spare time.  lol  Who knows?  The guy in Charlotte sounds really nice.  And then there is Virginia Beach.  Can't beat that!  And the young one in DC.  Hmmmm.  I like young.