Annoyed

Well, I guess I should have known that my friend whose our housemate wouldn't change that much in 10 years. *sigh* I really wish she'd learned that HER plans aren't the only ones that are important and should be respected though, to clean up after herself, and to show people the courtesy of phone calls when she's out with someone we don't know and having car trouble etc so we don't worry about her. Was up till 4:30 AM after she called me twice at dinner last night and when I got a hold of her, said that she and her ex had done nothing but fight and yet turned down my offers to go and get her. Then today when she got back from there, she said that she'd been offered a rent free place so she'd be moving out.

Now granted, I didn't have any idea of how long she'd be staying with us but I figured it would be enough to save up some money for at least six months to a year - we were only going to charge her $300-$350 in rent and even told her current boyfriend that we'd be able to go as low as $200 if she wanted to stay with us, but to totally turn our lives upside down and then move out in a week is a bit ridiculous, and not at all what I was expecting would happen. I told her boyfriend last night via text message that she was really frustrating us because she asks us for advice, and then ignores it. But well, so much for her idea on a collaborative story that she hounded me with since Thursday night when we went to the writers meeting. Needless to say, I didn't get any writing done last night because I couldn't focus on it.

Anyway, yeah, just had to vent on that. I called my cousin and told him that we are going to allow her one chance to move out, and one chance to move back in, but if she leaves a second time, he can rent out the room we had for her because I don't need all her drama and instability in my life. She confused the hell out of me as well because she asked to move in with us because she wanted to get away from her ex, and they moved to the state together, then she came here and he was three towns over and that was where she was last night because he didn't want to be alone, and is trying to get back together with her and is a total ass, and she wants to be friends, blah, blah, blah. She's two years older than I am and half the time, it feels like I'm the older one, looking out for the younger one because she doesn't have the common sense or maturity level to go with her chronological age.

But right now I'm trying to relax and will be hitting my bed soon. At the current moment I don't have to worry too much about her because she's out of state at the moment visiting the current boyfriend who I have known almost as long as I've known her.