Which Team

What kind of message are you sending to your children? Do they seem themselves as burdens or blessings? How they answer this question will pretty much determine whether or not you can keep them on your team. To keep them on your team, you must let them know that you wanted them to be a part of the team to begin with. The degree to which this is communicated will greatly affect their self image and thus their ability and desire to function as part of the family unit. ..........Cahrles Stanely