regrets

 the next time you start thinking about your past and start regretting the things did or didn't do, ask yourself one question. "Am I happy where I am today?" Now I don't mean where you physically are at that moment. You're not fukin' Waldo for Christ's sake. I mean, look at your life. overall, are you happy. If the answer is yes then you have no regrets. Every decision you've made, every action you've taken, has led you to this moment in time. 

I look at my life and i see that I am married to a great woman and we love each other. i have 2 boys that are pretty good and have given me more good times than bad. I have a job I enjoy, a house I like and everyone is healthy. So yeah, overall I like where I am so no regrets.

I bring this up because it seems like now a days i hear a lot of people bitching about unimportant stuff. We don't really stop to look around and see what we have. We default to a pessimistic view of things. I'm no different, I just have a wife who knows when to give me a quick kick in the ass. 

So, cheer up dammit. don't make me have to send my wife after you. :)