When are you supposed to start seeing people, girls after you separated from a 4 year relationship. I feel timid and weak in front of people , i feel so fuckin alone in a big appartement ...i dunno what to buy for groceries. I have put so much emphasis on the other one that i lost perspective over me. Now i wanna know new people ...but i never got to pass trough my .... timidity or anguish... What soever i met new people over ineternet..but am i ready to learn obout the other, and what will people think when i will tell them ..hey i just want to be a friend for now ... damn ...