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I feel for you man.I'm in a similar situation with my boy's mom.He's ten and loves his mom.She cares only for herself.She goes to work and comes home and gets on Live.With her \"friends\".I want her to go but I know it would break his heart.I hope it works out for the best for you and him.Thanks for letting me vent.Good luck

You'll be better off.

Just make sure he doesnt feel any guilt, we all tend to blame ourselves on some level-even innocent children.\r Be sure that you and the Ms. dont run each other down.(in front of your boy)\r That has a horrible impact on children.\r \r You need to assure him that he has a great Mom (stepmom), she's awesome. And she needs to reciprocate as well.\r \r However you need to explain it, its kinda like a puzzle that the pieces......dont fit anymore.\r \r Sometimes we grow apart, things change and what once meshed-just doesnt.\r \r Hopefully he can understand that there are no \"bad guys\" just trying to make better lives for each one of you, especially him.\r \r He needs an emotionaly healthy and happy Dad to guide him through his teens, I hope he can understand some of these things.\r \r Good luck to you guys.

We're behind you Mass.......

What a rotten situation. I can only echo what OldManRiver said, make sure the boy knows it isn't his fault and that there is a way for him to contact her if he wants (and hopefully she agrees).

It sucks, no two ways around it. Here's to hoping you make it through with your boy in the best manner you possibly can...\r \r B.

Sorry to hear this man. I wish you and your famiily the best. OldManRiver said it all. Good advice.

It's not a knock-down drag out situation. The boy knows that we still love each other and respect each other. The wife feels like she needs some space to try and let go of some of the hurt, see if she can get back to being a couple. The excuse to take care of her father is sparing the boy any gory details, but she's taking the dog.\r \r Like in a damn country song. Now I just need a tornado to suck up my double wide for the prefecta.\r \r Thanks for all the kind words of support. I hope she finds it in herself to come back to the family. I really do love her, and she's not as selfish as it may seem in my writing. I want nothing more than our family to be whole again.

As a stepmom, those words will ring in my ears for a long time! Thanks.

Mass...In the few hours that I have actually spent in person with you, it was obvious your character, love for your boy, and no bs/straighforward personality is everything your boy needs to become the man he can be. Yes...it is important to have a women in a boys life, but if the woman that is there, is not worth the sweat between my fat, hairy, pimply ass cheeks, then all the better that she is gone.\r \r You are strong and will work through things, give me a call if you need to vent or what ever...Hang in there bro..

Keep your head up Mass. Time heals ALL wounds. Sounds like your boy has one of the best role models imaginable. You need to hit me up for some gaming sometime soon

You're better off without her. The kind of person who can walk away from a child (step or not) without looking back does not genuinely care about your son. There is another woman out there for you and him somewhere. He and you will heal. It may take a while but it will happen.

Thoughts are with you...

Being realistic about the situation is tough but the right path in you and your boys interest.\r Theres not an open revolving door (literally) between you and your wife anymore, but theres not a wall either. Shes got her space and the weight of the path/s she chooses to follow.\r Its a pity to see the impact on your boy I'm sure, just fill that void with love and understanding.\r I'm so glad you guys have each other, being seperated from your children is an indescribable ache. I'm sure you understand.

Thanks, folks. Thanks for the kind words.

\"everyting gonna be alwight\"- bob marley.

Ain't nothin to a G brother. You're \"dad\" - and he'll follow you - sound like a damn good one too.\r \r

DURTY! I was thinking of ya today sweets.

JEEP!! Shake ur butt with me! Shake, shake shake!!

not exactly the nicest butt i've seen here :lol:

That shit was HILARIOUS! The neighbor standing there was the icing on the cake.

As a kid, they always told us not to put things down on the \"dirty sidewalk.\" Now I know why!\r \r For The Ladies Only!!! = )\r \r Durty, have you ever thought of getting into Photography? I think you would have a good eye for it.

my pleasure :) and not about the miles of cock .....lol

First off that blog was sick,i loved it. Second \"Miles of cock\" sounds like a great gamer tag or band name.

Shred....if you've ever heard of the band Zimmer's Hole....they have a song called \"A thousand miles of cock\"

well that would tell me I need to move out of there real quick. still cant get by the diaper ??\r \r see kiddies that's why crack is bad.