Chiefs and Indians

Big0ne

Shared on Mon, 11/10/2008 - 14:49

Search the word "leadership" on Amazon.com and you'll get 300,419 results for books that you can buy.

Search to word "Followership" and you'll get a sparse 2,294 results by comparison

It seems everybody wants to be, or thinks they are a leader.  The question is, how many leaders do you think we need?  Why don't we ever get good advice on how to be a good follower?  Ever notice that we have become completely distrusting, disinterested and disloyal to any leader, and hold that disenfranchisement up for high regard?  Unless of course the leader is you, then you expect a certain level of respect.  It's no wonder no one "good" ever wants to toss their name in the hat to lead.  Who'd want it with all the little chiefs running around sabotaging everything you try and do?

We were not all born to be great leaders.  Only a some can lead and fewer still lead well.  Maybe our level of contentment would raise if we learned to do our best in the position in which we find ourselves.  If we are all Chiefs, then we're really just all Indians.  Indians with enormous egos.  If you've ever watched Survivor you know that good leadership is important to any group.  What you may overlook though, is that the successful teams have good people willing to submit to the leader and do the work needed to achieve.  People today don't like that word "submit".  It causes the hairs to bristle and the defenses to raise.  Why, I wonder?  You expect your children to submit to your authority.  You expect the people at work to submit to your leadership.  Why would you not submit to someone as well?  Willingly and with respect.

Now I know someone will immediately want to run me to the extreme on this.  That's OK.  I don't think we can set our priorities, values and rules based on the extremes though.  It takes to parts to make a nation, company, organization or family work.  Leaders and followers.  Next time you're complaining about your leader, ask yourself how good of a follower you are.

Comments

TheDastard's picture
Submitted by TheDastard on Mon, 11/10/2008 - 14:52
Please tell me what to think. I canz be a good follower :)
Big0ne's picture
Submitted by Big0ne on Mon, 11/10/2008 - 14:56
I think you should play Gears of War 2.
Stryker927's picture
Submitted by Stryker927 on Mon, 11/10/2008 - 15:01
I agree. I think it comes to down to how critically negative we have become as a nation. It's represented in our news, in our politics, and in our blogs. We can't come to terms with our own short comings and mortality so we quickly point it out in others so it levels the playing field. If we can't become better at something or improve our life socially, spiritually, economically then no one else should be able to either seems to be the prevailing attitude. No one is perfect or without flaw. But motivated by a desire to imporve one self or do more for their fellow man counts for something. But we so often want to jump to conclusions judging other's motivation or intentions without really taking the time to understand or ask. We assume the worst of one another instead of assuming the beast. The guy on the highway that almost cut you off is an idiot or worse. Although any of us could be guilty of a last minute blind spot. We think the clerk who scerwed up our order is incompetent instead of wondering if she is new to the job. We assume our boss or leadership is incapable as a leader because of the decisions they make but yet we have none of the information that they have that was analyzed to make that decision. Why can't we focus on ourselves for a change? Why can't we seek to improve ourselves? Why can't we be happy for others when they prosper? Or helpful when they fall? Once we can become more cooperative, compromising (where appropriate), more understanding, and think better of others then trust can be built and then the leaders can lead and the followers follow. IMO. :) Great blog Big, brings up some great issues.
Big0ne's picture
Submitted by Big0ne on Mon, 11/10/2008 - 15:04
I always assume the beast. :lol:
Armorsmith76's picture
Submitted by Armorsmith76 on Mon, 11/10/2008 - 18:20
This might be the cynicism that you are talking about, but I have a hard time finding leaders worth following. Where are the Dr. Kings, The Kennedys, the Ghandis of today? (yeah I know these people weren't perfect either and that history has whitewashed some of what went on) At the end of the first paragraph, you state that no one "good" wants to run... Is Obama the man I should get behind? Will you chose to follow him? Was McCain the man you would have followed instead? Someone else? Your pastor? Your boss at work? (rhetorical) Will you trust (somewhat) blindly and throw yourself into the work they set before you, spending your precious time and energy hoping that your efforts are well spent, that they are a competent and benevolent leader whose ideas and interests are worthy of your precious time? I consider myself lucky, I have a great boss. He has proven to me that he is smart, trustworthy and a little revolutionary about business. He understands the big picture,that his well being (and the company, which he owns) and my wellbeing are connected. It sounds stupid, but I do feel honor in working hard for him, in pushing myself. I can be a good follower, and I think that most others can as well. Part of being a good leader is being able to inspire people, to get them to see the vision, to believe. When someone "good" gets a leadership role... I will follow. I hope we elected some of those leaders. Great blog.
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Submitted by Big0ne on Mon, 11/10/2008 - 18:55
I wouldn't advocate blind following. Nice post Armor.

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