Thinking...... I think.

ImMrPete

Shared on Fri, 08/05/2011 - 20:33

 

Right now I'm so frustrated with school I want to pull my hair out. Now before I go into details I'm going to give you a little back story. Seven years ago I dropped out of college to be a stay at home dad while my wife at the time worked. It was only fair considering that she had already graduated and was able to find a job. Sure, the job was twelve hundred miles away from home but it was a job nonetheless. Fast forward four years. We ended up getting divorced because she's crazy and made me miserable beyond compare.

 

Two years ago I decided to return to school. My daughter was older so I felt like the time was right to go back. I applied at the local community college and recently graduated with the ultra useless AA degree(4.0 GPA TYVM). The next step for me is USF. Today was spent going through the two programs that I'm interested in and unfortunately none are offered in the evening. I work full time during the day and am unable to get off for class.  This leaves me in a difficult position.

 

What do I do? Should I just get any B.A.? In this economy I can't quit my job and go to school during the day. There are no evening jobs and I need to spend time with my daughter. It is possible that any degree would open more doors for me at my current job. But my heart was really set on something else.

 

 

 

My little girl. The reason why I want to finish school.

 

 

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Submitted by CarterDavidov on Sun, 08/07/2011 - 04:38
I'm probably the last person in the world to give career advice seeing how mine went for crap, but I can see from the photo you have something worth fighting for. Jut take a deep breath and let everything balance in your head. Then go the route that just feels right.
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Submitted by moesley on Tue, 08/09/2011 - 12:24
i don't want to sound like a complete downer, but i work at a university and i see most of our graduates struggling to find jobs in their area and the rest taking jobs as managers at walmart and mcdonalds. (or some other equally glamourous gig). honestly, if you have a job in this economic climate you'd be fucking nuts to quit to go to school. if you get laid off, then by all means hit the books, but as long as you have a paycheck coming in, you should keep working. your little pixie looks like she's got maybe 5-6 years before she hits teenagerhood and doesn't want anything to do with you, so you might want to enjoy the next few years while she still wants to hang with you and wait to go back to school. that said: it really depends on what degree you are thinking about getting. the cost of a degree is outpacing the earning potential. partly it's the degrees people are choosing, partly it's the economy and the current job market. a generic business degree isn't worth the ink and paper it's printed with. you'd have more luck with a hard science like chemistry/biology or a practical business field like accounting(beancounters can always find jobs). a history degree with a minor in technical writing or communications can get you a job in all sorts of strange places you woulnd't expect(gov't, non-profits, tv, etc.) the ability to communicate professionally and see a global perspective and the long term consequences of decisions are skills most business degrees totally fail on, so history and english majors are finding their skillsets in need all over. as much as most people loathe having to write, going with a minor in technical or business communication/writing would be a HUGE selling point when you go looking for a professional job. if you have any questions or wanna chat about school or whatever, let me know.
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Submitted by ImMrPete on Tue, 08/09/2011 - 14:47
Thanks for the advice. I have decided I'm going to go part time at night. Heck, it will only be two nights a week so that shouldn't be that bad. Currently I have 90 credits so it should take me around 3 years to complete my degree. I'm going for a B.S.W. partly due to already having experience in the social work field. I still have plenty of contacts so the likelihood of getting a job is fairly large. I know I won't get rich but I would rather have something that I enjoy than something I was just in it for the money.

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