Basically a rant.

Yes it starts again, another nephew staying with us. YAY!  This one started about the same his mother kicked him out so of course he asked if he could stay here so I we talked it over next thing I know he calls and asks if he can I said get a bus ticket so my old lady drives up to get him, because he says he has no where to stay that night. So he's here 2 weeks and has stayed here about 4 days total, I tell him if he is going to be staying somewhere else that's fine but take your stuuf there because we are not going to be a storage facility. So he starts staying here more often and of course thinks it's our job to keep him entertained so he starts spending hours on facebook gets off when he's told but as soon as it's free jumps right back on. Eventually we put alimit of 2 hrs on the computer a day and a password to sign on. I guess I should mention he is 17.

He is also apparently a thief. He was here maybe 2 weeks and I caught him with a $100 charm that had been in the same place for months then as soon as the desk it was in was moved to the living room it comes up missing. He had it on his chain and I asked him if he borrowed it he says "no I've had one for a while."  So I tell him to let me see it because I will be able to tell if it's the one missing because it has a specific bend and a date stamped on it, and if it was not it I would apologize but everyone told us not to let him stay here and his stealing being one of the reasons. So then he say ok well honestly I found it in the couch so I thought I could take it........ wtf you find something in my house in my couch and you think you can have it. By the way I did not believe that at all. So I tell him he needs to work on getting a job and school noone is letting him get in school without his a parent signing for him so we are working on that and so far no job. Did I mention he has 2 warrants? I found out about this after he moved in he claimed he was going to a court date on 1/28 never happened.

Later on he gets $40 for helping clean a house now I'm not going to tell him what do with it but he needs shoes his have holes and are falling apart he says he spent it all but only thing we seen him get was some candy and gum not really a big deal except he complains about needing shoes, and I mentoined he could get a cheap pair with that money. Then we start thinking we smell smoke in the bathroom after he has been in there a while I told him not to smoke in there no smoking in our house at all he says he was not and that he only smokes ciggarettes sometimes.

We told him before he moved in no drugs, weed whatever. So here we are in Feburary after so long of him doing not much more than laying around getting on the computer or mine or my sons xbox. Friday I had him do what was left of the dishes while we went to a family dance at one of my daughter's school, h=got back and he still had not done them all, so I tell him to finish because he was going to a friend's house. So after he leaves I notice that they are still dirty well of course they are. He was supposed to call us that night but here it is Tuesday and we have yet to hear from him.

Now on to what got me to the point that got me to write this Saturday I caught my 2 yr old gettin in his stuff (it's in a room off the living room basically should be the dining room) I tell her no and she pulls an old busted xbox controller of mine out of his backpack, I also think I see one of my allen wrench sets in an open side pocket.  This pissed me off, but I put it back in there to confront him later then I notice she has something else clutched in here hand I take it from her and am ready to kick his ass, it's a piece of pen that has been cut down and used as a pipe. So after I go wash her hands off I take his stuff and stack it in another part of the room as I am moving one of the boxes a bowl falls out of the bottom. I clean the garbage and shit up around where his stuff was find a seed, and a razor blade all on the floor. So this reminds me that I found a razor that had been took out of a disposable razor on the sink in the bathroom kind of behind and beside  his aftershave. Now who the hell uses a piece of pen to smoke weed out of, especially when they already have a bowl?

We have also noticed a few other things missing one of my daughter's DSi is missing another ones portable dvd player is missing. So the plan is to make him go through his stuff with me to get rid of all the drug shit and to prove he does not have anymore during which hopefully we might find some of the missing things. I just hope he does not show up and try to take off with it all because it will not end well. I know he has at least one thing of mine in his stuff but I don't want to go through it.

Thanks to anyone who read writing about it calms me more than talking about it, that just gets me to thepoint that I want to punch him.

Have a wonderful day