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Holy crap! Game information on this site... naw naw Durty. you can't go there girl! ;)

Man..........who knows? Unless you could become her best female/ or gay male friend I truly feel that she intends to "open up". Lord knows I'm no example or expert on women. It seems many try to change direction to pacify their "needs". If theres a problem that doesnt seem to be working out the a major change is next. A new vehicle, home, major move job change. But something to make them feel better about themselves in whatever void they feel needs to be addressed. But its seems so many of these are just patches to where the root of the problem lies. My X's "cup is always empty" as she put it so these "changes" were a steady stream until momentum just ran out. I dont know what advice to give you other than to let her know the door is open..........but dont be tooooooo available. Sometimes you might need to not answer the phone or whatever. Dont seem too eager to throw yourself into parts of her life as she sees fit. I know your a smart guy Mass, just pull all your patience and your (sensible) gut feelings about the situation and see if you can read into what your wife is trying to do..........and if you can fit/resemble that role in a way to benefit everyone. Just some thoughts, good luck .

I agree with most of what oldmanriver is saying. Don't change for her. But, if she didn't know "who she was" before you got married, chances are she won't be the same person if she comes back. BTW, sorry I missed you last night, I thought you were on my FR list! I ended up missing the CoD match anyway.

Damn Mass, I think we're both in the same boat with only one paddle spinning in circles. I know how hard it is to not answer the phone sometimes but that does sound like good advice. This weekend I better see you in some beta games, nothin better to occupy the mind then having to worry about whos tryin to shoot you in the ass! At least your not having to stay at your moms, at least they let me steal bandwidth

Silent velcro. Would have thought?

YES! my DDR scores will finally be recognized!