I'm having to fight a battle I know I'll win...

I like tits and I'm not an idiot. :)

I love tax time

Kurupt...you're frustrated with the shit. I get that. And you need to vent (I did the same and often sounded like an asshole). The hardest thing for me to learn was when a friend told me "It takes two to fight". I argues and argues that she was the one doing this. I finally realized that I could pick which battles were important and (somewhat) control those I was dragged into. Even then it was horrible...9 years and 26 court orders (so far). One kid disowned by his mom and the other ready to leave her. People think I am 'winning', but there is no win. I have great kids but they have issues because of what they have been through. Dude, I don't have any magic, I'm just saying do everything in your power to keep the kids out of it, recognize that, batshit insane or not, she is their mom and they don't care about the $$ or the BS and they need her, and take a few lumps if you have to. 10 years out you WILL be better off. My kids have told me many times that, had I engaged their mom like she was going after me, had I defended myself by pointing out everything she was doing wrong they way she was potting me down, they wouldn't be having anything to do with me today either. Your kids need one sane parent, although two would be nice. I hope she reads this too and I hope you both find a way. And tits are AWESOME!

God damnit, its almost worth getting thrown off the site.

You two need to cut this shit out before you end up like me and my ex with close to $200k between us in attorneys fees, and couple of seriously fucked up kids, and 9 years and counting of grief. I'm sorry to be harsh, but just give her the fucking deduction and move on. It will cost you more in the end between the lawyers and the lost respect from your kids. Both of you need to take the high road and behave.

And dude...it ain't about winning. Neither of you will win this. Put your kids first in every decision. Be a role model for them. If your ex behaves, great. If don't, don't get dragged down with her. Sorry again. I don't know shit about you. But this really hits a nerve.

Like I said, I don't know you and obviously don't know your situation. Ex's suck (both ways I'm told). I apologize again, but you are at a point in your life where you need to be a fuckin' saint. It sucks. I know. Keep in mind that if she reads what you post it's only going to fan the flames. Hang in there and keep the faith. It will end eventually. And you only win if you come out of it with your kids respect.

They aren't your deductions, they are your kids. Federal law does not mandate that just because they lived with you for 7 months that she can't claim them as a deduction, or that you can. They only thing she can't get is Earned Income Credit, she can still claim the child as a deduction though, two different things.

I read your blog wrong, sorry. If she lived there for 7 months, she has every right under federal tax code to claim Earned Income Credit, any other Child Tax Credits and claim the child as a deduction. Sorry to burst your bubble.

I am just lost that Durty sounds knowledgeable about something other than titties.

People think I'm an idiot because I like tits, but I'm not...I'm just a smart chick who realizes that tits are awesome, lol.