lawyers suck

 I think the title of my blog says it all.

I'm not going to say that lawyers are the cause of all the problems in this world, but they come pretty damn close. And let me clarify. Divorce lawyers suck. All other lawyers are ok in my book.

I've been fighting for my kids for almost 4 years now. The lawyers involved do not care one wit about the kids and the pain they cause. All they want is their blood money.

I've hired another attorney who thought i have a pretty good chance at getting the kids back because their mother is so damn crazy. But he too is showing that he just wants the money and not do a damn thing to earn it. I could do a better job - but judges hate it when you go pro se and they are prejudiced against you. so you are forced to use a damn stupid divorce attorney who has zero capacity for details. 

sigh...

some day in the future i just pray that i can explain to my kids that i NEVER ONCE gave up trying to fight for them and their sanity. I've drained all my resources and yet i still am going at it. My kids deserve to have a normal life despite what their mother and the court system thinks.

Their mother has borderline personality disorder. Is an alcoholic (has gotten two DUI's), has been reported to child services numerous times, has no job, is tens of thousands of dollars in debt, has no friends and makes it her number one job to keep the kids from ever talking to me or seeing me. I have a great job, friends, close all my family (and hers), can provide a great stable environment for the kids and for their future. Yet, none of this seems to make a difference to the court. 

Some day the balances of justice will prevail. Maybe not tomorrow or the next or even within my lifetime, but they will prevail. 

and back to my reason for the post. If lawyers for divorces were actual human beings instead of scum sucking bottom feeders, they would have one thing and one thing only as their goal. make sure the kids have the best environment to grow up in.

stupid lawyers