Reconciliation

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Shared on Sun, 06/24/2007 - 20:56
Ever since we were 10 years old my best friend Mark and I did everything together. We drew pictures constantly in school, we hung out every weekend, raided the mall after school and dominated the arcades.
Our passion was horror movies and after college we eventually started up our own company that specialized in special effects, prop making, and haunted attraction designs. When we were in our early 20's we were contracted to design build and run a haunted park for a local ski resort. We built it on a $2000 budget, called it Haunted Hills, and it ran for 4 weekends during the halloween season.
We produced a $15,000 profit.

2 years later we opened our own haunted theme park and ran it successfully for 3 years until it finally happened.

Last July due to mounting pressure to produce and money squabbles, Mark and I parted ways with a lot of bad blood left behind. We havn't seen each other or spoken to each other since. 20 years of inseperable friendship shot down the drain in one night over money.

Until today. I extended the olive branch and sent him an email admitting that while I was still angry over several things, I was wrong about the way I handled them. A few hours later, he responded by saying that we're both too old for holding grudges and that high school ended long ago.

And while he isn't ready to dive right into being "best buds" again, he does want to take things slow and see what happens.

At least we're talking, and maybe some day I'll have my bro back.

Comments

cpt-crunch's picture
Submitted by cpt-crunch on Sun, 06/24/2007 - 21:51
Good for you guys. My family has a long-running family feud and it's dragged everybody else into it. Seven years after it began, things are finally starting -- and I stress starting -- to get resolved. I wish you guys all the best!
TheCrazyPerson's picture
Submitted by TheCrazyPerson on Sun, 06/24/2007 - 22:52
Good for you J, I hope things work out for the best! Icey
DixieBelle's picture
Submitted by DixieBelle on Fri, 10/12/2007 - 08:15
He says that He can remove your sin from you as far as the East is from the West. That's his Word, so I'm believing!
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Submitted by JollyRoger on Fri, 10/12/2007 - 08:23
The "walk" is also a race...to be run to it's completion and the ultimate prize. Two pieces od the Good Word for you JRo: Phillipians 3:12-14 12 I don’t mean to say that I have already achieved these things or that I have already reached perfection. But I press on to possess that perfection for which Christ Jesus first possessed me. 13 No, dear brothers and sisters, I have not achieved it, but I focus on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, 14 I press on to reach the end of the race and receive the heavenly prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us. And Hebrews 12:1-2 1 Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a huge crowd of witnesses to the life of faith, let us strip off every weight that slows us down, especially the sin that so easily trips us up. And let us run with endurance the race God has set before us. 2 We do this by keeping our eyes on Jesus, the champion who initiates and perfects our faith. Thanks for sharing bro. When your legs get tired from running, take a deep breath, focus your eyes on Him and get up and run some more. You will be blessed by it. JR
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Submitted by MTK005 on Fri, 10/12/2007 - 09:02
I'll interrupt this serious religious discussion to bring some levity, since I'm glad to see your selfish "daddy's sugar bowl" days have stopped and you are able to rejoin your family :-)
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Submitted by Eviluncle on Fri, 10/12/2007 - 09:18
I find that giving your problem to a god and asking them for forgiveness just adds to the problem. What is to stop you next time? Well if I can't fix it I will just ask god to do it for me. This is just one of many problems I have with any religion. Thanks for sharing twentyfo
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Submitted by CapnHun on Fri, 10/12/2007 - 09:28
J - Interesting. I think the bible is very clear in how we deal with sin. There's a lot said about how it is dealt with God, and A LOT said on how to it is to be dealt with fellow man and specifically our brothers and sisters. Forgiveness is a given in that we are to have an attitude of forgiveness towards others. That is for ourselves. Then there is dealing with situation and reconciliation with the parties that were wronged which has very specific steps of confrontation (yep there is an appropriate way to confront others), confession, making it right (which so many times the only thing we have to offer is an apology which is what makes the others forgiveness such a great thing and the process of building back whatever was damaged in the relationship.
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Submitted by Stryker927 on Fri, 10/12/2007 - 10:09
Gaius makes a great point. Paul talked about being saved by grace but if only to sin again then it is all for not. Asking for forgiveness and true repentance are two different things but walk hand in hand. True repentance is not only to feel bad about what you did but to take action in protecting ourselves from repeating those mistakes. In most cases it is a reliance on God to help us in making more wise decisions and to be less selfish, thinking of and promoting others. Also, the word "perfection" as used in that verse in Philipians doesn't mean "PERFECT" as in without flaw. If you look up the original Hebrew the word means perfection as in completion. Meaning that you are complete in what and who God has called you to be not what others want you to be. This would tie to our own personal sanctification and is a much larger discussion. But what I find awesome about it is how God has a plan for each of us and gives us the tools to achieve it in spite of our mistakes when we have repentance and our focus is not lost on the goal at hand! Great discussion guys! P.S. I don't think religous is a good term to describe this conversation. I know it's a general term that most apply. But the term "religion" speaks of man made institutions and theologies. This is about something much greater and deeper than anything "relgious". :)

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