I Need Some Help
I Need Some Help
I'm not sure how much help I can get from posting here, but I figured it was worth a try.
Basically, to make a long story short, I need to move out of my living situation. I'm planning to divorce my husband, but the requirement is to live apart from him for at least six months. I live in Virginia and I'm looking to live either near the Virginia Center Commons Mall, which is where I work, or at least 20-30 minutes away from work. If anyone can help me out with this, I greatly appreciate it. Unfortunately, I don't make a lot of money, so I might not be able to financially help with rent or utilities, but I am able to make other arrangements, like full access to my games as long as I live wherever I am, help with chores, run errands, watch pets or kids, etc. Again, if anyone can help me, I would appreciate it.
Also, if anyone can't personally help me, but knows people that might be able to help, I would appreciate that too. Anything will help! Thanks in advance.
Living in the UK I am unable to help!
Although good look for the future and im glad I read the rest of you topic after the "but I am able to make other arrangements"
Aaah that sucks, but hopefully your life will come out better in the long run. I have a soft spot as I've just went through the craziest year of my life myself. Good luck and keep us posted!
I most certainly will. Thanks for taking the time to read my post.
Oh, thats tough Eevee. It takes alot to ask for help like this and I can only imagine. I live a good distance away and can't help you. I do wish you the very best. Just look up, have some faith and trooper through it.
Good luck, hope you manage to sort some thing out :)
So far, I haven't been able to find someone to live with or a place of my own. This is really hard. :(
Sorry to hear that :(
I assume you have already tried, but is there any govenment help available? some thing like subsidised rent or even housing that can help. (not sure how it all works on the other side of the pond :) )
You'll get yourself sorted, just try and keep your chin up :)
An remember. It all comes out in the wash!
Alright, after a month of not posting, I wanted to update on the situation. I decided to give my husband another chance after we separated for three weeks. To make a long story short, I did find a place, but moved out after living there for three weeks. Not going into the details, but at least things with my hubby are working out now.
I really honestly feel the "don't know what you got until it's gone" rule can heavily play a factor in a relationship if standard communication isn't working. I think it sends the message that your needs/requests are important and need to be taken seriously (make sure you communicate those needs/requests though!) So hopefully that allows you two to work it out if that's what you both want. Good luck and thanks for the update!
Sometimes the grass isn't greener on the other side. Unfortunately sometimes it takes a walk in the grass to figure that out.
Glad to hear things are working out for you and your hubby. My wife and I have had our ups and downs so I can sympathize with you. Relationships can be hard... especially the ones really worth fighting for.
Good luck!
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