One more blog about the end of my marriage.

So it's coming soon, I have the final draft in my hands, and simply need to pay the lawyer and set a court date. God I'm so pissed off right now, I try to be nice and give her a heads up about an important part of the decree, only to get it thrown back in my face like you owe me then you get what you want. Got news for you, the state tells you what is and isn't gonna happen. The Judge gets a little pissy and vindictive when you tell him no especially when it comes to the kids... But what you do is your choice, just trying to be a nice guy and not see you fall any father into a downward spiral. That's the great part of divorce, I no longer have to care. You want to be friends, I've told you the conditions by which that can happen, and it has nothing to do with money. Do right by the kids, be a part of their life, not a part of it at your convenience. THEY DESERVE BETTER, but I've grown tired of telling you this, how they want you, and how you can do that. You're on your own now, the relationship you have with them is yours to make, succeed or fail, again I no longer care how you handle it.....