Manipulative cow!

erinroxyfox

Shared on Mon, 12/13/2010 - 14:06

Concerts this month: 11. Concerts left to go: 4. Hooray!!

Long ass weekend chock-full of orchestra stuff, followed by a well deserved drink and good conversation. I also made chili and an exceptional bread pudding on Sunday. OMG, drool. I taught my boyfriend how to make the creme anglaise for it (yum) and he did it perfectly.

Many blogs ago I mentioned the friend who is manipulative and continually bosses people around... she's struck again. She made me cancel my Christmas plans with my boyfriend so I could rehearse with her and some of her students on Sunday. I told her that I was busy, she said too bad, cancel it. I said no, too bad for you that you didn't book my in advanced. After a long conversation I agreed to give her two hours, but two hours only! My boyfriend and I rescheduled our tickets for the show we were going to see. He's been VERY patient with this girl. So Saturday night at 12:15am she texts me that I need to be there at 11:45 instead of 12, but she promises I'll be done at 2. She already booked someone and they MUST rehearse with me. I figure, fine it's 15 minutes, that's an extra $20 for me, I'll take it. So I show up at 11:45, all is well. But by 1:45 she says I will need  you to stay until 2:30 because I am running late and my students have already paid for that time with you. I got pissed. Not just a little irritated, I was seething. This shit always happens with her, and she totally takes advantage of people in situations where it's uncomfortable to walk away from it. I stayed until 2:30, the busted ass to get to my BF's house. He wasn't angry at me, but agreed that my friend has no respect for anyone. I agree. But she's getting me like $400 in gigs so it's hard to turn down at Christmastime. Anyway, I just wanted to vent. That's it.

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KuruptU4Fun's picture
Submitted by KuruptU4Fun on Tue, 12/14/2010 - 07:38
Sounds like she needs to sign up for cougar911.com and get laid...
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Submitted by erinroxyfox on Thu, 12/16/2010 - 14:54
Haha! Yeah... I told a colleague at work that she should list herself on that site. Apparently she didn't like my tone and got all offended. (Hey, she's 46, has a loft downtown and looks pretty hot... that spells Cougar.)

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